Five Types Of People Not To Ever Date In Your Life

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Five Types of People Not to Ever Date in Your Life

These are the type of people not to ever date in your life.

People who are not Accountable to Anyone
People with Baggage Brought Forward
People with Parasite Behaviors
People who are Too Serious with Everything
People who Don’t See/Support Your Vision

People who are not Accountable to Anyone

I would have loved to use the term “people who don’t fear anyone” but the word fear is a little too deep for this context. What I mean is, “stay away from people who don’t and can’t listen to anyone.” The chap does not listen to their own parents, elders in the family, elder brothers/sisters, hello you have found someone to date.

Wait, before long, you will be on social media with the “hide my ID.” Such a person can’t be controlled and they act according to what is pleasing in their own eyes. These are the ones who become narcissists in their conduct. Their world circles around them and nothing is right unless it’s the way they want it. They will wrong you and hurt you with confidence knowing so well you have no one to appeal to because they don’t fear anyone. Leave this type alone and run for your life as far as you can get.

People with Baggage Brought Forward

In the first place, I don’t even know why this type agrees to a date. They are so not ready. They still have ghosts and uncompleted orgasms from the last ex-relationship, and now they want to dump it on you like you are a sewage refinery and recycler. These people will have you suffering for what their last five exes did to them as if you also contributed to it. Everything you do will be measured on the barometer of the last boyfriend/girlfriend.

They come with very sensitive hearts, angry attitudes, and a whole lot of mistrust for the opposite sex. These are a hazard to you, to themselves, and to the relationship. Leave them alone. Let them heal on their own before you hitch them up. People with baggage carried forward are also very draining and energy-consuming. This is because being with them, you are carrying all the chaps that hurt them in the past and you have to keep massaging them for things they won’t leave behind.

It’s not your job to heal or nurse anyone, let them heal themselves and then date with a clean slate minus the dark past.

People with Parasite Behaviors

These fellows will eat you up full by full, and by the time you realize, they have finished the good part of you and yet offered you nothing in return. They come with sweet words, and once you accept, they want to get from you without giving anything worthwhile in return. They will sex you until the cows come home and then leave you as they move to the next victim without a pinch of remorse.

You just remain a statistic in their number of conquests. Some of these chaps come with needs that never end and instead of being their girlfriend or boyfriend, you become their main benefactor. Every day they have a new need and if you don’t give them, they take you on a guilt trip and make you feel bad. If not, they give you that feeling, “If you can’t give me, I can get it from someone else.” So that you get scared to lose them and give in.

Parasite people are like bed bags, they wait for your most vulnerable moment and then strike. Be careful, they will finish you and all your finances. It’s called dating not money bug support.

People who are Too Serious with Everything

There is no light moment with such people. Their sense of humor is at zero percent. No matter how good a joke is, they can’t ever laugh and they are naturally always in a bad mood My friend, life is too short to be with a person who is too serious like they are on a mission to serve the whole world.

Usually, such chaps are not even romantic at all. They think pizza is a waste of your money. When considering the price of a pizza, they start comparing it with the price of a bag of cement. They can’t even have a decent meal at some nice exotic place or take a long flight trip to some beautiful and serene site because according to them, it’s a waste of time and money.

They live their life preparing for the future and not living today for the present. In as much as preparing for tomorrow is very important, you need to realize that there is today too that needs to be lived. Date someone who makes you smile. Guys, find a lady that helps you relieve your stress.

Not some holier-than-thou serious human being. Ladies, find a guy who makes you laugh, not some serious deadbeat guy who is ever worried about the possibility of world war three happening again.

People who Don’t See/Support Your Vision

If there is one chap you must quickly run away from, it’s the chap who thinks your vision, job, and chosen life career are useless. This one you must not even tolerate. This includes anyone who wants to compete in your career.

There is nothing that kills great vision faster than dating a visionless, unsupportive person. If they don’t like what you do, and you know deep down in your heart you love what you do and don’t want to change, leave this one alone. You don’t want somebody who is going to mock what you’re into or make you feel less passionate about it.

You want somebody who is enthusiastic about your passions or at least supports them. A supportive partner is great fuel and leverage for your dreams. Nothing feels good like your partner being your number one cheerleader in whatever you want to venture your time and mind on.

Better you try and fail rather than not try and just stay stagnant wasting your youth. Nothing comes easy in life you try so many things and eventually make it and all this needs a supportive partner.

In conclusion

Dating is a personal decision and ultimately the choice of who to date should be based on individual preferences and compatibility. It’s important to consider factors such as shared values, interests, personality, and communication style. Ultimately, the best way to determine if someone is a good match is to spend time getting to know them and building a relationship.