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Look For This One Thing In Your Life Partner

Who is the right person?

I know you have been asking yourself about this especially after being heartbroken. There is no right person.

If you put your heart into something, something may become wonderful. is it the right thing? there is no right thing.

Nobody ever found the right person anywhere, okay? if you get into that world of an unrealistic mindset, ” I have found the right person! ” Ooh, you will soon be disappointed.

You must understand that there is no right person. First thing is to see whether ” I am the right person ” yes ” I am the right person ” and there is no right person on this planet.

If you understand, then you must understand that relationships are formed for various needs. They may be:

Physical needs
Psychological needs
Emotional needs
Social needs
Financial needs and any kinds of needs.

So when you are going to somebody with so many needs you are going as a beggar and a beggar cannot choose. Hello? a beggar eats what comes his way, isn’t he? He cannot choose.

So if you really want to make a choice in this world, the first and foremost thing is you bring yourself to a place where your experience of life is just pleasant by yourself, you are wonderful.

Now let us see what gets drawn to this one, if you are really wonderful, things will happen in every way am saying. In terms of career, marriage, and relationships. The best will happen to you because you made yourself like this. Instead of going to work on somebody and fixing them. If you work on yourself and make yourself so wonderful that everybody wants to be with you, then there is a choice. And this whole thing is an American thing, that there is a soulmate somewhere.

Look For This One Thing In Your Life Partner

the one thing you should look for in your life partner is HOW THEY TALK.

Even the bible says ” you get to know someone completely when you listen to them.

If you go on a date don’t talk too much just listen too much instead. so if you date someone, just listen to their tone. if they raise their voices and you marry them that marriage will be full of conflicts. These are people likely to have verbal abuse, they are poor listeners and you are going to have a crisis resolving conflicts.

If they are full of themselves they talk about my nails, my hair, my house, my car, my mum, and my sister it’s all about them. You are likely to be dating the wrong person. They just talk about themselves then they are full of themselves.

If you meet someone who is always complaining about everything then you are completely dating someone who is not ready to be called a partner and you are likely to be ready to deal with stress or even depression for the rest of your marriage.

If you find someone who is God-fearing and humble, they talk about good things then you just hit the jackpot. it takes humility to honor God.

so I suggest to you. There is one thing you must do if you check someone, LISTEN ON WHAT THEY ARE SAYING, their words, and their tone before you make the final decision whether to engage them in your life.

The tongue reveals the heart.